“ Stop Fighting and Flow “

4.12.23

If you’ve ever been swimming , which I’m sure majority of my readers have.Whether in the ocean or the pool it’s still the same. You’re on your stomach and you have to use strength and focus and all of this energy to move through the water. To make your own path in the water. You also have the option to lie on your back, relax, and float. Let the water move you. See in my mind. Home , where your grew up that’s like a swimming pool. Calm waters you can easily swim through and it doesn’t require much effort. Going out into the world, that’s the ocean. Waves moving at any given direction. Just water and water for miles. A lot harder to swim over top of waves like the ones in the ocean. Its been said that in life we have a choice of going against everything that comes our way and fighting our way over top of it ,like the waves in the ocean. Sometimes they can knock you down but still you keep swimming unless you’ll drown. Or you can relax. Stop fighting or trying to control what does or doesn’t come into your life. Lay on your back , relax and float. Let life move you to where you’re meant to be. This requires faith. Faith in the flow of water. The flow of your life. Trust that God is moving you where you’re meant to and letting whoever and whatever come and go just as it’s meant to. It can seem scary. To let go of control. To let go of the conditioning we were all so sadly raised with that taught us that you have to fight and work hard for everything you want. It’s not true. The things you desire in your life will always come to you if you just relax and flow. Not even with physical things but with emotions and thoughts as well. You’ll fight and fight through these waves of your mind swimming trying so hard not to drown. Just to ignore these emotions and feelings , when all you have to do is breathe and let yourself feel them. Feel and float in the flow of life.

It’s easier said than done. Once you do this though. Life becomes so much easier. Who wants to carry the burden of swimming their entire life knowing that eventually a wave might come that will knock you down and you face the possibility of drowning. Although while floating you’re on your back and you will move gracefully right over top of the wave like it was nothing. What I’m trying to teach is surrendering. Tell yourself everyday “ I relax. I let go. My life is in perfect flow “ . I want y’all to know that when your are surrendering control of your life “ your energy will flow where your focus goes” . When you’re lying on your back in this water of life. Relax and think of all the things you desire , feel all the emotions that you feel. Let those things move you to where you are meant to be. Let god guide you. Most people are so conditioned in thinking that when they are fighting to make sure every thing, feeling, and thought goes according to what they think their life should be or look like that they have so much power. When truly once the control goes then you give room where the real power will flow. Don’t resist the changes in your life. Don’t fight to not feel something. Everything suppressed will just be another weight that makes it lot harder for you to swim or float. Don’t force anyone of anything to stay in your life. Know that on the other side of resistance and control you don’t have to swim all day everyday. You lay back , float, and enjoy your life in the flow. Thank you so much for reading. Share this post with your friends, family, social media, or anyone who needs help to learn to flow with life. Also if you haven’t already subscribe via email with the button below so you never miss any updates. If you don’t check your email on a regular basis , my blog also has an official instagram “ @speakwithloveblog “ you can follow me on there to also see all of my blog topics and updates. Enjoy the rest of your day. Remember to speak bold, speak bright, and most importantly speak with love 💕✨

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