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What to Expect if You Keep Expecting

10.24.21

I no longer expect anymore, I am living in the flow.

If you haven’t learned by now , expectations often lead to disappointment. So whatever you are expecting someone in your life to do or say let it go right now. See we have these expectations but never take in account that persons emotional availability, understanding , or perception. We can not change people , only our surroundings. When theses expectations are not met we end up hurting our own selves. Questioning “ did I expect too much ? “ “ was I wrong for thinking I could have that expectation met ? “ NO ! and NO!

Vax King says “ Remove expectations from people , and you’ll remove their power to hurt your feelings “ . It’s time to stop expecting and just start living. When someone shows you that they are unreliable you don’t expect them to be there when you need them. When someone shows you that their a liar don’t expect them to be honest with you. If someone can’t see your worth don’t expect them to treat you how you deserved to be treated. That last one has been the hardest for me to learn, but it’s crucial to comprehend that. So this week I will be working on that expectation that people will treat me the way I treat them because sometimes that isn’t the case. Of course I will always speak with love , just can’t always expect people to return the favor. What expectations will you be dropping this week ? Dm me or email me yours . I hope you took what you needed from this post and share it with someone who you know has too many expectations. If you haven’t already subscribe to my blog . I hope you have enjoy the rest of your day , just remember that whatever you do, to speak with love 💕 - Alaina Marie